As someone who has always enjoyed gossiping and 'gisting'. God has been questioning me on this. This personally comes from my assumptions and comparisons of people which then leads to me judging them. Worst case scenarios turn into bitterness and hate.
But God said to love others as much as you yourself. So I am working on loving myself, imperfections and all. Because I will then be able to love the perfections and imperfections in others and not be so quick to judge them.
Matthew Henry says we must judge ourselves and judge our acts, but not make our word a law to everybody. As pride could also come in.
Eve boo, reform yourself first and remember to only say the things that will bring glory to God. Ask the holy spirit for help when all you want to do is share that hot gist.🤦🏽♀️